Protect Yourself & Your Family
If potential stalker - either on or offline - doesn't know where you live, make absolutely sure it stays that way.
The following strategies can help you protect yourself:
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Utilize private post office box service for all mail. | |
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Advise all utility and phone companies, as well as creditors of your mailing address changed. | |
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Register your driver's license and cars to an address other than you home. | |
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Call the DMV and request your address not be given out. | |
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List real property in a trust rather than in your own name. | |
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Remove your home address from personal checks, letterhead, and business cards. | |
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Use a non-home mailing address for voter registration and credit card applications. | |
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Ask the three credit bureaus - Experian, Equifax, and Trans Union - to flag your account in order to lessen opportunities for fraudulent access. | |
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Rent an outside office if you're self-employed and your business requires personal visits from patrons or associates. |
Phone
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Get an unlisted, unpublished phone number, and limit the number of people to whom you give it. | |
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Don't change your number should a stalker gain access to it, instead get a second one and leave a answer machine hooked up to the line the stalker knows. This is a perfect way to document harassing calls. | |
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Never talk on a portable phone - those conversations can be monitored. Keep in mind that cordless phones, cell phones, baby monitors, and hearing aides allow for conversations to be picked up on scanners. | |
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Make sure your address isn't listed in the phone book or in the reverse directory. | |
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Avoid calling 800, 888, 877, and 900 numbers, so that your phone number isn't captured by a service called Automatic Number Identification. | |
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For maximum privacy, make sure the area where the phone lines enter the home is inaccessible. | |
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Never verify your home address or any other personal details over the phone. |
When Your Not At Home
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Let appropriate people around you know what's going on and enlist their help. | |
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Carry an air horn or a whistle with you. Use it if the stalker approaches. | |
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Vary the routes you take, whether in a car or on foot, as well as your routines and social habits. | |
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Know the whereabouts of family members at all times. | |
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Plan ahead. Know the locations of police stations, fire departments, and busy shopping centers. | |
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Always park in well-lit areas. | |
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Visually check the front and rear passenger compartments before entering the vehicle. Keep the doors locked when not in use. | |
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Equip your car's gas tank with a locking gas cap. | |
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Invest in a cell phone so that you can call for assistance should you need it, without leaving your car. | |
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Don't stop to assist stranded motorist. Phone in a report instead. | |
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Ask a friend or family member to accompany you whenever possible. Never walk or jog alone at night. |