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Protect Yourself & Your Family

If potential stalker - either on or offline - doesn't know where you live, make absolutely sure it stays that way.

The following strategies can help you protect yourself:

Mail

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Utilize private post office box service for all mail.

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Advise all utility and phone companies, as well as creditors of your mailing address changed.

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Register your driver's license and cars to an address other than you home.

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Call the DMV and request your address not be given out.

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List real property in a trust rather than in your own name.

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Remove your home address from personal checks, letterhead, and business cards.

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Use a non-home mailing address for voter registration and credit card applications.

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Ask the three credit bureaus -  Experian, Equifax, and Trans Union - to flag your account in order to lessen opportunities for fraudulent access.

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Rent an outside office if you're self-employed and your business requires personal visits from patrons or associates.

Phone

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Get an unlisted, unpublished phone number, and limit the number of people to whom you give it.

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Don't change your number should a stalker gain access to it, instead get a second one and leave a answer machine hooked up to the line the stalker knows.  This is a perfect way to document harassing calls.

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Never talk on a portable phone - those conversations can be monitored.  Keep in mind that cordless phones, cell phones, baby monitors, and hearing aides allow for conversations to be picked up on scanners.

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Make sure your address isn't listed in the phone book or in the reverse directory.

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Avoid calling 800, 888, 877, and 900 numbers, so that your phone number isn't captured by a service called Automatic Number Identification.

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For maximum privacy, make sure the area where the phone lines enter the home is inaccessible.

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Never verify your home address or any other personal details over the phone.

When Your Not At Home

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Let appropriate people around you know what's going on and enlist their help.

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Carry an air horn or a whistle with you.  Use it if the stalker approaches.

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Vary the routes you take, whether in a car or on foot, as well as your routines and social habits.

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Know the whereabouts of family members at all times.

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Plan ahead.  Know the locations of police stations, fire departments, and busy shopping centers.

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Always park in well-lit areas.

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Visually check the front and rear passenger compartments before entering the vehicle.  Keep the doors locked when not in use.

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Equip your car's gas tank with a locking gas cap.

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Invest in a cell phone so that you can call for assistance should you need it, without leaving your car.

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Don't stop to assist stranded motorist.  Phone in a report instead.

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Ask a friend or family member to accompany you whenever possible.  Never walk or jog alone at night.